我喜欢频繁出差的工作，喜欢去不同的城市，看不同的风景，遇见不同的人，然后不断告别他们，而不是一直在一个地方，让别人路过我，告别我。

I like the work of frequent business trip, like to go to different cities, see different scenery, meet different people, and then constantly say goodbye to them, instead of always in the same place, let others pass by and say goodbye to me.

不过我觉得人和人之间也不只是喜欢和厌恶，最冷淡的状态是漠不关心。

不在意不惦念，不感兴趣也不耿耿于怀，任凭他装腔作势波浪滔天，和我没有任何关系。

But I think that people are not just like and dislike, the most indifferent state is indifference.

I don't care, I don't care, I don't care, I don't care about him, I don't care about him.

可能关系越亲密，就会变得越敏感吧。

有些话有些事如果是别人说的别人做的，过了也就算了，一旦放在这个人身上就突然觉得过不去。

因为本身把他看得太重了，所以就算只是被蚊子叮了一下，都觉得像被狮子咬了一口。

Maybe the closer the relationship is, the more sensitive it will become.

Some words and some things, if they are said by others and done by others, will be ignored. Once placed on this person, they will suddenly feel unable to pass.

Because he takes him too seriously, even if he is bitten by a mosquito, he feels like a lion.

人和人刚认识的时候最好，热情又虚伪，新鲜又浪漫。

People and people just know the best, warm and hypocritical, fresh and romantic.

现在觉得人和人之间没必要快速地升温粘合。

还是喜欢正常进度的相识，从你叫什么名字谈起，从交换兴趣爱好开始，从期待见面的次数，一页页聊天记录的堆积起航，然后我们再去成为彼此最爱最爱的人或最好最好的朋友 。

Now I don't think it's necessary to heat up and bond quickly between people.

Or like the normal progress of acquaintance, starting from your name, starting from the exchange of interests, from the number of expected to meet, page by page chat records, and then we go to become each other's favorite person or best and best friend.

和有些人刚认识的时候真的是不错，久了以后就像一个放过期的罐头，严丝合缝的铁皮之下气泡满溢，微生物群生，像极了人际交往中滋生的厌，只不过表面上，起码是表面上看不太出来罢了。

It's really good when I first met some people. After a long time, it's like an expired can. Under the tight fitting iron sheet, there are bubbles and microbes. It's just like the weariness in interpersonal communication. It's only on the surface, at least on the surface.

不知道从什么时候开始，突然不喜欢聊天了。

文字不爱聊，语音不想听，已经到了“有事就说事，别扯没用的”这种地步了，莫名其妙就变了，像换了一个性格，大概是老了。

I don't know when I started. I didn't like chatting.

Words do not like to chat, voice do not want to hear, has reached the "something to say, don't pull useless" this point, inexplicably changed, like a change of character, probably old.

他是我遇见过的人中，最中我意，包括性情我都最爱的人，可是我看不懂他，我只能记住和他一起吹过的晚风。

He is one of the people I have met, and I love him most, including temperament. But I can't understand him. I can only remember the night wind blowing with him.

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