毀掉第一印象的12件事

Scientists have proven that we form our first impression about someone within the first 7 seconds of meeting them, and 55% of the first impression is based on appearance. Pay attention to 12 common things you should avoid not to ruin the first impression.

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12

If you wanna give the right impression of confidence and capability, remember to grip the other person’s hand firmly and for no longer than 2 seconds.

11

Put your hands on your lap if you want, but never keep them in your pockets because this gives the impression that you’re hiding something.

10

Chewing on gum makes you look immature, self-centered, and somewhat low-brow.

09

Don't be afraid to lock eyes with another person from time to time instead of constantly looking around, especially when you meet them for the first time.

08

If you tend to play with your hair when you’re nervous, try to kick this habit, you could be sending them the wrong message.

07

Play it safe and avoid the general “taboo” topics out there. They include health problems, money, religion, politics, or personal problems and complaints.

06

When it comes to meeting someone for the first time, keep a minimum of 4 feet between the two of you.

05

It can be nearly impossible to control nervous tapping, but you have to try, especially during important meetings or presentations.

04

Even if you’re just checking the time on your screen, it comes off as extremely impolite when you do it during a conversation.

03

Immediately repeate someone’s name after you’ve been introduced. In case you forget the name, just play it cool and try to avoid using phrases where you have to name the other person.

02

Leave your house in enough time so that you don’t have to run to your meeting. You’ll be all disheveled and unfocused, and that looks bad too.

01

If you’re meeting somebody for the very first time, again, especially in more formal situations, try to be conservative in your choice of clothing, be polished, and don’t use heavy perfume or tons of makeup.

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