甜喪·動漫·女生頭像：我喜歡你，喜歡也沒用，沒用也喜歡

成長就是，從前你難過的時候，油鹽不進，茶飯不思，現在能一邊流淚一邊去廚房給自己下碗麪，還不忘加倆荷包蛋。

Growing up is that when you were sad in the past, oil and salt did not enter, and tea and rice were not thinking. Now you can go to the kitchen to give yourself a bowl of noodles while weeping.

人的一生會長大三次，第一次發現自己不是世界中心的時候，第二次發現即使再怎麼努力，終究還是有些事令人無能爲力的時候，第三次是會明知道有些事無能爲力，還是會拼盡全力的時候。

People will grow up three times in their lifetime, the first time when they find themselves not the center of the world, the second time when they find that even if they try harder, after all, there are still things that are helpless, the third time they will know that there are things that are powerless, or When I will do my best.

生活經常告訴我，每天要記得按時起牀，要站着，多幹事，對了，還要記得笑，不要狂笑那種，儘量真實點，如果實在笑不出，記得平時多多練習。慢慢的，我們不再大笑，只微笑。慢慢的，我們不談理想，談感想。

Life often tells me to remember to get up on time every day, to stand, to be a multi-secret, right, but also to laugh, not to laugh like that, try to be as real as possible, if you can't laugh, remember to practice more. Slowly, we no longer laugh, only smile. Slowly, we don't talk about ideals, we talk about feelings.

如果你想過普通的生活，就會遇到普通的挫折。你想過上最好的生活，就一定會遇上最強的傷害。這世界很公平，想要最好，就一定會給你最痛。能闖過去，你就是贏家，闖不過去，那就乖乖做普通人。

If you want to live an ordinary life, you will encounter ordinary setbacks. If you want to live the best life, you will definitely encounter the strongest injury. This world is fair. If you want the best, you will definitely give you the most pain. If you can make it through, you are the winner.

我向來擅長自我保護的方式是：一旦察覺對方冰冷的態度我就會退避三舍，不會主動去捂熱這段關係。

The way I have always been good at self-protection is: once I notice the cold attitude of the other party, I will retreat and will not take the initiative to cover up this relationship.

在成年人的感情世界裏有一個潛規則，不主動就是答案，沒有回應就等於拒絕，這世界上沒有人忙到一天不回覆你的消息。

There is an unspoken rule in the emotional world of adults. No initiative is the answer. No response is tantamount to refusal. No one in the world is too busy to reply to your message all day.